New city, new job, zero free time — the classic combination. Somewhere along the way I'd optimized myself out of meeting anyone at all. My comfort-movie collection grew faster than my contacts list, if I'm honest. A red-eye seatmate told me about this dating site for farmers and it's rare to find something that lives up to the hype. I still can't quite believe how smoothly the whole thing has gone. Turns out the leap was much smaller in hindsight than it looked from the edge.